Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Coincidences

Throughout college, I never did much pleasure reading. If I had the extra time to read, I felt extremely obligated to review for that biology exam, re-read the chapter on chord voicings, or review that German lieder for tomorrow's performance just once more before I went to sleep. Reading for my own enjoyment just didn't happen for close to four years of my life. Sad.

Within the past year and some change, however, I always seem to find myself immersed in a book that more than coincidentally coincides ridiculously well with wherever I am in my life. It all started with an anonymous stranger handing me Paulo Coelho's The Alchemist.

On October 12 of 2007, I spoke as the student body representative at the naming ceremony of our newly renovated University Center. The student body chose to name it after former Wisconsin Governor and former UWSP chancellor, Lee Sherman Dreyfus. He was known as the students' chancellor, a man who could always be found walking around campus with his bright red vest, willing and ready to talk with students about issues important to them. He was truly on their level. When he first came to the University in the late 70's, his inaugural address to the student body started: "Hello, my name is Lee Sherman Dreyfus. Yes, my initials are LSD, and I'd like you all to come on a trip with me."
Due to his rapidly failing health, he wasn't able to attend the ceremony. But it was imperative that we held the ceremony while he was still alive. My speech addressed Gov. Dreyfus and what he had done for the University and the state, as well as addressed the student involvement in the planning of this multi-million dollar project.

At the reception following the ceremony, an older gentlemen walked up to me. He said, "I worked closely with Gov. Dreyfus during his time here. He would have been extremely proud and touched to had heard your speech today. I want to give you this..." That's when he handed me a copy of The Alchemist. "I can tell from that speech that you'll be going places. That's what this book is about." He signed the inside: "Shawn, listen to your heart, MC Graw, Colorado.

I placed the book on my shelf with all the other I'll-get-around-to-them-someday books. There it sat until December when I started packing for my trip to Thailand. A group of 13 UWSP students were about to embark on a month journey to work with at risk Thai children. I was on my way out of my room when I looked at my bookshelf and hastily grabbed the book. "Meh, I need something to read during this 22 hour flight." Having no idea what this book was even about it turned out to be the best read for a globe trotting adventure.

It's about a shepherd boy named Santiago and his journey. Throughout the read, I couldn't help but compare myself to the boy, as I too was making an incredible journey at the time. Besides the cliche "the journey is the reward message," the book is full of lessons that I will carry with me forever:

"I don't live in either my past of future. I'm interested only in the present. If you can concentrate always on the present, you'll be a happy man. Life will be a grand party for you, a grand festival, because life is the moment we're living right now"

"The fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. No heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams"

"You don't have to understand the desert: all you have to do is contemplate a simple grain of sand, and you will see in it all the marvels of creation."

"Time is another of these things we need to help ourselves to go through life, but it does not exist"

The most relevant part of this book for me and my journey was it's talk of a universal language. A way the world communicates with one another, not via tongues and sounds but via a fabric we are all woven into. Working with the children at DEPDC, I truly heard this language, as none of us students spoke Thai, yet we came to develop some of the tightest bonds with the Thai children over the short time we were there.

My other book coincidences aren't quite as deep, yet still just as relevant to my life.

I came home from Thailand and literally the next day was thrown into the classroom. Culture shock. I just returned from a month in a country that no where near resembles the states, teaching at a school where the children would otherwise be in forced labor or sex slavery. What is the point of sitting in this classroom when there are real problems in the world which my time and effort could be going towards? I couldn't stand the thought of pointless classrooms, until I found myself studying close to the exact same thing in two completely different classes.

Geography and journalism. I used to think they had nothing in common, besides the fact that one can write about the other. My journalism class was topic specific focusing on food and travel writing. Here's where the liberal thinking of UWSP got the best of me. My geography class basically revolved around how the spread of humanity has desecrated our planet. One such issue is the over-production of, well, everything to sustain, well, everyone. Food production ties in of coarse. From over-fishing to over-farming and depleting nutrients in the soil, humans are using more than mother earth can give us. While I was learning the technical side of this from my geo class, my journalism teacher had us reading Michael Pollan's The Omnivore's Dilemma and The United States of Arugula by David Kamp, both of which addressed food production on a more personal level.

Now, I've always been a closeted anti-establishment kind of guy. But these two classes simultaneously bombarded me with a "here's how shitty the human race is" kind of mentality (in geo we screened some incredible documentaries, including Who Killed the Electric Car, it'll make you hate corporate America, if you don't already). So if you want a discussion sometime on capitalism, our environment, and the food we eat, I'll be happy to share some heated opinions.

On a more positive side though, my journalism class also got me to read Garlic and Sapphires by Ruth Reichl. As a New York Times food critic, her incredible writing has me thinking about food more than I ever thought I would. Plus, her writing really inspired me to write more. Now, I have this blog that I feel obligated to write on all the time......

Kidding, this is kinda fun.....

Following that spring semester, I immersed myself in The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch. As if Ruth hadn't inspired me enough to write, Randy was the writer who started it all. While this book of little short lessons should not have taken me all summer to read, I wasn't in a hurry to get through it. I tried to take each little lesson to heart.

Getting around Europe, I let Rick Steves enlighten me to the places I was visiting. Better than a text book, but not quite a leisure read, but rather informative in a fun way. This book wasn't so much a coincidence as it was an "ok, I want to know about the places and things I'm going to see." However, my next read was coincidental all over again.

I kept seeing subway posters for The Whole Truth by David Baldacci, and being stranded at Luton airport for six hours finally brought me to buy this international thriller about a second cold war. This read was extremely fun because the action takes place all over Europe, particularly in the places I had just been on my continental tour. It was the first time I could say "sweet, I've been there." Since being back home, I turn on the telly or read an article and say "sweet, I've been there" quite often.

The tube and bus rides get long without something to read, and sometimes you just can't stand those evening newspapers. So as soon as my flatmate was done with The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini I snatched it up. Again, having no idea what it was about, I dove in. The book takes an in depth look into the life of modern Afghanistan while following a boy from childhood to his adulthood exile into America. This book opened my eyes to the lives of the people around me while I worked in the London neighborhood of Harlesden, where I was one of the only white people. The food, lifestyles, and all around culture described by Hosseini mirrored what was going on all around me.

After The Kite Runner, I stuck to my iPod and evening newspapers to entertain my commutes.

Finally, to what I'm reading now: Gods Behaving Badly by Marie Phillips. This saucy little tale is about Greek gods living mortal lives in modern day London. Yet again, another pleasant surprise. As I was reading last night at a little coffee shop in Green Bay, there was a scene that took place "somewhere between Euston and Kings Cross." For a visual, I pulled the Tube map out of my jacket pocket, as it has been there since my return home. Just like in The Whole Truth, I can read along and say, "sweet, I've been there." 

I try to look for these little coincidence in life, however lately, I haven't had to look hard. They are in black and off-white on the pages of the books that I happen to come by. The word coincidence, though, has such a benign connotation. I feel they are little messages, reminders, or signs from the universe around us...from God, if you will. As I learned from The Alchemist, there is a fabric that binds us all, the world and the universe it exists in. If we can learn to listen to this web of our lives, I think we'd be all the better for it.

And speaking of coincidences, I was thinking a lot today about what I am doing, where I'm going in the next few months. Then in the middle of writing this I received a message from a friend wondering if I wanted to work with him in Alaska.... I'm listening and the message is coming in loud and clear.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Back in the Saddle Again


This past Thursday I went back to my roots and did what I did best, rocked. 

It's been quite some time since I've gotten in front of an audience with a guitar, drums, my bass, and some raw voices. I had the opportunity to sit in with Magna Cum Loud for a gig in Winona, Minnesota. Their bassist couldn't make it. So I soaked up his glory, along with cheap drinks and a free hotel room.

Cum Loud is an adrenaline filled rush of rock straight to your temporal lobe. Being on stage with them for that hour and a half was certainly an experience for all eight people that were listening....

Despite the attendance, the gig revitalized my rock senses that I've missed so much over the years. Since Thursday, I've been playing too much guitar and looking for more opportunities to get on a stage with it.

One of which will be this Tuesday at Ned Kelly's in Green Bay. I'll be sitting in with an open jam, so if you are in the area, swing on by. If you're not around, this is just the beginning. I must satisfy this craving. 

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

America Celebrates

With all the excitement revolving around our new president, it got me thinking of all the other times I've celebrated America, such as this past Fourth of July...

WARNING: May contain some inappropriate language content.

We're an Obamanation

Thoughts from Inauguration Day

I popped over to fellow blogger and good friend Will’s house this morning to watch the inauguration. It was nice being with another writer as we watched with our laptops at the ready. While he was writing for Moue Magazine and somewhat live blogging the whole time, I posted just a few thoughts as I watched:

 

I cringed a little when the boos for Bush started resonating throughout the crowd in D.C. After all, the guy did serve our country as a leader during some difficult times, so perhaps the American people should have showed a little respect. On the other hand, he created a lot of those difficulties himself. Perhaps the singing of “Hey, hey, hey good-bye” was a better audios to our former President…

However, props to the President’s Own USMC band for drowning out whatever boos were there.

To be honest though, inside I was booing for Bush just like the majority of America.

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Looking at Obama’s face as he walked down the corridor towards the podium, Will and I couldn’t help but to wonder what was going through his mind. From the stone emotional look on his face, I think his head must be in utter bombardment of emotions, thoughts, and mental preparation for his speech ahead.  Since I believe more people will be watching this one speech at this one moment than any other speech from an American President in history.

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From Diane Feinstein:

“Real and necessary change in our country”

From Rick Warren:

“United by our commitment to freedom”

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John Williams. As if he hasn’t defined iconic symbols enough with his movie scores, he now has defined a presidential office with his arrangement of Simple Gifs.  Brilliantly performed and composed, the piece started disjointed and in disarray, however came together via the recognizable melody of Simple Gifts played, not coincidentally, by a black clarinetist.

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From Barack Obama  himself

“Humbled by the task before us”

“Values are old and true. [They have been] the quiet forces of progress”

“A new era of responsibility.....duties that we seize gladly”

The political analysts summed up his speech with the phrase Obama himself has used time and again: We are summoned to responsibility.

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Perhaps the most interesting image, to me at least, was at the very end of the ceremony. Bush and Obama standing next to each other on capitol hill. Obama wearing a red tie, Bush wearing a blue tie.  I believe Obama said something to the effect of, “we are not just a collection of red and blue states….”

Then president Obama and vice-president Biden stood and watched as Marine One flew former president Bush out of Americans' lives, while the crowd again sang “hey, hey, hey, goodbye”

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And I never noticed Barack was left handed until today. 

Monday, January 19, 2009

Country....

I'll be honest, I've never really enjoyed country music. That is until I got involved with Daddy D productions out at the SC Grand in DePere, WI. Now, I truly despise country....


Ha, kidding!!! It's a brilliantly fun show! What don't believe me?!?



Look at me. Look how excited I am....



Look how....country I am
Wow, this picture makes me want to throw up.....




Anywho, in case that poster is a bit too small to read, here at the details. Come check it out!

6:30 Coocktails
7:00 Dinner
8:00 Show

Come for the dinner and the show, or just the show!
Preferably just the cocktails and the show. That's when it's the funniest.
(yes, funniest, not most funny)

January 30th - February 21st
Matinees February 11th & 21st

See show listings at left for complete details

Friday, January 16, 2009

Yesterday, I Went Running

For a successful run, always start with clean teeth.


Thursday, January 15, 2009

Clare Sitting

My five-month-old niece and I don't quite get along yet...

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Trackside Seating at Your Own Risk

This past Saturday night, I had the opportunity to witness a sport as sports should be played. If the following video doesn't explain it all, I don't know what will:



I would try to explain the rules of this fantastic event but in all honesty, I'm not 100% on how it all works myself. Here's the basic premise. Two teams of scantily clad women are on the floor at a time. One skater from each team is designated the "jammer" and wears a star on her helmet as an indicator of such. The object of the game is to get your team's jammer through the pack of both teams' blockers.

It's obvious why every heterosexual male should fall love with this event. Chics in mini-skirts, lace panties, and other unique uniforms skating around and knocking each other over is entertaining to everyone, male, female, straight or gay. But besides that aspect of the sport, I personally love the fact that this sport is pure fun.

No million-dollar contracts. No overly inflated egos. No huge corporate sponsors...well, some local Madison area businesses, but it's all in the spirit of promoting and contributing to the sport. This league is what sporting should be: FUN. No one takes themselves too seriously. All of these ladies have day jobs, and many have families and lead perfectly "normal" lives outside of that ring. But in it they are death machines. They use fake names like the Vaudeville Vixens' Chop Suzzy #311, Octopusy #007 and my favorite Juke Boxx #A18. Or the Reservoir Dolls' rock'n jammers Mouse #4 and Rosetta Stoned #420, and the ridiculously gorgeous Little Bo Bleep # #@!% and their coach Busta Crimes.

Those were my two favorite teams, the Vixen's and Res Dolls. However, a friend I was with had a sister who played on the Unholy Rollers and they ended up rocking the shit out of the Res Dolls. The Vaudeville Vixens ended up setting a new Mad Rollin Dolls league record high score of 164 points. For a full recap of the night's events.

Here's what the referee saw that night:


I could go on and on about this Saturday night's rollin rumble. Instead, I'm going to post their 2009 season schedule in hopes that you'll make it to the Madison area to see this fantasticness for yourself.

  • Saturday 10 January 6PM: Veterans Memorial Coliseum @ Alliant Energy Center
  • Sunday 1 February 1PM: Veterans Memorial Coliseum @ Alliant Energy Center
  • Saturday March 6PM: The Exhibition Hall @ Alliant Energy Center
  • Saturday 21 March 6PM: The Arena Building @ Alliant Energy Center
  • Sunday 5 April 3PM: Veterans Memorial Coliseum @ Alliant Energy Center
  • Saturday 25 April 6PM: The Exhibition Hall @ Alliant Energy Center
  • Saturday 16 May 6PM: The Exhibition Hall @ Alliant Energy Center

If you're thinking about it, message me and I'll join you.... gotta go cheer on my Vixens.

Oh and I can't complete this blog without thanking the man that showed me the glory that is roller derby. Thanks Albino! (Check him out this Friday as he does his 3rd Annual 24 hour Random Jandom radio show on 90FM)

Friday, January 9, 2009

In with the New, but Keeping the Old

As I sit on the fifth floor of UWSP's Learning Resource Center watching a kid get yanked around on a blaze orange sled, I think to myself, "I cannot wait for him to get whip-lashed off that bright piece of plastic...and why don't they just call this building a library." 

I believe UWSP goes for the three word building titles: Health Enhancement Center, Learning Resource Center, Dreyfus University Center, Debot Dinning Center etc. This way students can refer to them in acronyms, because life is too fast paced for anything but.  Acronyms help people streamline things, keep things in order. 

Over the past few months, this blog has helped me keep my life in order. I'm extremely pleased to go back and read things that happened just months ago that had I not written down, would have been lost to the black holes of my memory. 
I also just so happen to be at a crossroads of where I'm going in life. While I don't like to dwell on the past, we can learn from it. So I take time now and again to go back, see where I've been in hopes that it will help me determine where to go. 

Since I am going, somewhere yet unknown, that means change. Change that I am exited for. Along with a change in life come a change in my blog's format.

Basically this was just a long explanation of why I changed my blog's template....

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

They Liked Me, They Really Liked Me!

Post London can do strange things to people. I've been chatting with friends who have done the same program I did in past semesters. The biggest change in everyone is just the different way they view things upon returning from this marvelous city of British accents and double-decker red buses.

For those that truly embraced that city, like me, we feel a sense of inadequacy with life back home. There's no hustle and bustle, no excitement around every corner. When I turn down the streets in Green Bay, I know exactly where I am. I miss that thrill of getting...not lost, but discovering a new section of Londontown just about every night I went out.

I miss Brent, specifically Harlesden, and being the minority. Taking in other cultures' lifestyles for a change. I loved it. And of coarse, Bang Radio, the station and all the fabulous people I came to know.

Speaking of which, I was extremely humbled this morning after I read the kind words of my replacement at Bang via his blog.

Here's the good stuff about me...real humble, I know:

Hi everyone, I’m Michael, the new Shawn. Faithful followers of the Bang Blogs will know that Shawn Connelly was that cheery corn fed lad from the American heartland who was living out his bright lights, big city fantasy in London to finish his college radio course with a stint as the station’s production assistant.

But that’s such a modest term for all he did here. He was a jingle-making, promo-editing, ad-writing, note-taking and laugh-inducing wunderkind who sported a mighty set of unruly sideburns. He’ll be a tough act to follow, but I’ll try-though I can’t grow sideburns to save my life!

I am flattered. Thank you Michael!

Friday, January 2, 2009

Suddenly American, Suddenly 2009

1-2-2008


The holidays have their way of erasing time. Two weeks of my life seem like an utter blur. Then all of the sudden it's 2009 and I'm struggling to keep up.


Here's a quick recap of what my life as of recent has entailed. I finished up in the canary islands on Friday, Dec. 19th with a day of chilling in the sun at our sweet Americanized resort.


The next day we awoke early to get to the airport for our 11:05AM flight, which didn't take off until 6:30PM. If I ever get back to the Reina Sofa Airport, it will be too soon.


The next day back in the UK I caught a train out to Oxford where I caught up with long time
friend from high school Joseph Smeall. He's studying music composition and conducting at this prestigious university. We had a splendid day of walking about Oxford and catching up.


Later that evening, we went to a 9 Lessons Church Service where the choir sang many familiar classical pieces. It would have been a beautiful concert service were it not for the crying babies which parents didn't have the decency to remove from the church.

My last full day in London consisted of me finishing up my holiday shopping around London, mostly in Camden.

Then on the 23rd, I flew into a snow covered Chicago O'Hare Airport, got in just in time as well. An hour after I got in they began canceling flights arriving and departing.

I made it home in time for Christmas. From the moment I arrived in Wisconsin, I was taken over by day after day of family get-togethers. It was great catching up with everyone, but I was jet-legged as all hell and those first 72 hours back in the states was non-stop holiday brunches, dinners, and falling asleep on couches.

Now, it's 2009. I'm attempting to figure out exactly what is going to be happening with the rest of my life, and as soon as I know, I'll post it here. Until then, there will not be the day by day updates that my European adventure warranted. Just some random thoughts thrown down which will be hopefully better written and less journal-like.

I hope these entries about my travels have been entertaining and perhaps even a little bit informative. Once I have a bit more of my life in place, I'll be taking some time to reflect more on the past four fantastic months of my life...until then, Happy New Year!


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